Sunday, August 7, 2011

Should I break up with my boyfriend? (Christian Perspectives please)?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 months now. I absolutely love him, without a doubt in my mind. Its like dating my best friend.The reason we are having problems is that He began having these doubts about whether we were in God's will.He kept getting signs telling him to break up with me, but he wasn't sure if they were from God or Satan, or whatever.Everytime he told me about his doubts, which was just about everyday for 2weeks I would talk with him about it until he felt better, but in doing so I was hurting myself.I knew that they were Satan's lies,but everytime they happened a piece of my heart was crushed.Finally 1 day i got sick of it and decided to break it off,but in doing so it caused him to shift his fear of "we arent in God's will" to "I don't want to lose you". I, at this point, had already put up a wall to protect myself from getting hurt.I told him I wouldn't break up with him, but I really do not know what to do.I mean from the beginning God was giving me signs that we were supposed to be together.So I want to believe that, but my heart is shattered from being beat up basically every night (even though he didn't mean it)..he thought that I was okay about it because I played it off like I was and then when I got to my dorm room I was balling my eyes out to God about it.. He says his perspective is changed and his doubts are gone now,but I'm afraid the moment I let my guard down he is going to hurt me again by having his doubts. I live about 2 hours away because of the summer, and he wants me to drive down this weekend, but I just don't konw, now im the one having the doubts. Should I just stick with what God told me from the beginning (and the signs were pretty undeniable), or should I just end it and save myself the possible pain? I'm a strong person capable of enduring the pain if its meant to be..I mean I do have God on my side if thats true ;) Idk if you have any perspectives please let me know. Thanks :)

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