Do you forgive him for cheating? Men and women please reply!?

My ex husband made the choice to step out on me. As soon as I found out, I got a lawyer, packed his crap, was changing the locks on the front door (with my little phillips screwdriver), and told him to go live with his 'girlfriend'. All of this took place in less than two weeks. As you can see, I don't forgive easily because NO MAN gets a second chance when it comes to infidelity. Now, there are women out there who have a softer heart than I do. A man may be a great father, but a lousy husband. Sometimes marriages do work out, after all.