Is it bad that i am considering cheating on my boyfriend?

The first thing you should do is change your profile from Male to Female, that is abundantly clear from you picture and your writing. I think you should get rid of both these guys. You are with a man that can not even decide if he is a man or not. You sound like your ready for a man, but he is not willing to step up. Don't get me wrong, I am all for waiting. But only if that is what you think is best for you, not so he can continue to be with boys. That can not be doing much for making you feel like a women. Now as for this other guy, he sounds like a serious rebound guy that will surely get you out of this other dead end relationship. He will make you feel like a women, no doubt. But he will use you and then move on. Nothing but heart break there. Start to value yourself and demand that a man deas the same. Don't settle for less.